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You Can be Your Family’s

Center For Peace

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Unlike Any Other Men’s Program

Our program helps men become emotionally safe for their wives. 

Many men exhibit abusive behavior without even knowing it.

Once abusive thought processes have been reframed, a man can be emotionally safe and exhibit protective behaviors.

Tools & Strategies That Eliminate Abusive Behavior

Thought Patterns & Behaviors

  • Identification & elimination of abusive thought patterns and associated behaviors
  • Reframing core beliefs & thoughts
  • Surrendering to reality, rather than living in fantasy
  • Recognizing there is ONE truth, rather than two sides of the story
  • Behavior change processes with a focus on peace
  • Learning to contribute, not contaminate
  • Creating power statements instead of excuses
  • Grooming vs. genuine care & protection

Coping Strategies

  • Identification & elimination of unhealthy coping behaviors
  • Restructuring coping process with a focus on current behaviors
  • Preparing & executing a Living Amends Plan

The Only Program That Pays You Back


Step 1

  • Schedule the initial intake session.
  • Complete all prerequisites.
  • Register & pay. Only 5 spots are available. Payment holds your spot, so register ASAP because they go quick.

Step 2

  • Attend all 50-minute group sessions for twelve weeks.
  • Schedule and attend an individual session once a week.
  • Complete all the program requirements.

Step 3

  • Receive a $ bonus for completing all program requirements.
  • Feel empowered knowing you can create a peaceful and happy home.

Program Prerequisites

  • Schedule an individual session with Coach Joi for an intake interview.
  • Schedule an individual session with Coach Joi for an intake session with your wife through Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
  • Complete the intake form.
  • Complete a polygraph confirming the truth of the information on your intake form. Submit your results three weeks before the 12 Week Intensive start date.

Program Requirements

  • No missed sessions.
  • One individual session per week.
  • One individual session per week for wife scheduled through Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
  • Complete required activities.

Cost Breakdown

Phase I: Intensive 12 Weeks
Initial Intake Session:
*If wife is not a Betrayal Trauma Recovery client already, she also needs to schedule an individual session with Coach Joi
Two 12-Session Individual Coaching packages: $2,400
Group Sessions: $5,000
5 days a week
*Includes Initial Polygraph
Phase II: Application  24 Weeks
Two 12-Session Individual Coaching packages: $4,800
Group Sessions: $6,000
3 days a week
*Includes Mid Program Polygraph
Phase III: Practice   12 Weeks
Two 12-Session Individual Coaching packages: $2,400
Group Sessions: $2,000
2 days a week
*Includes Year-End Polygraph

Program Schedule - All Times In Eastern USA


  • Week 1: February 3,4,5,6 – 7PM / February 8 – 9AM
  • Week 2: February 10,11,12,13 – 7PM / February 15 – 9AM
  • Week 3: February 17,18,19,20 – 7PM / February 22 – 9AM
  • Week 4: February 24,25,26,27 – 7PM / February 29 – 9AM
  • Week 5: March 2,3,4,5 – 7PM / March 7 – 9AM
  • Week 6: March 9,19,11,12 – 7PM / March 14 – 9AM
  • Week 7: March 16,17,18,19 – 7PM / March 21 – 9AM
  • Week 8: March 23,24,25,26 – 7PM / March 28 – 9AM
  • Week 9: March 30, 31, April 1,2 – 7PM / April 4 – 9AM
  • Week 10: April 6,7,8,9 – 7PM / April 11 – 9AM
  • Week 11: April 13,14,15,16 – 7PM / April 18 – 9AM
  • Week 12: April 20,21,22,23 – 7PM / April 25 – 9AM


I don't see where to sign up for the 12 Week Intensive? Where do I sign up for that?

Before you sign up for the 12 Week Intensive, you need to make an Individual Session with Coach Joi. After that initial session, you'll know if the 12 Week Intensive is right for you. If it is, Coach Joi will email you the link to register.

What can I expect from this program?

You can expect to be given tools to help you recognize the damage abusive behaviors cause. You will receive tools to reframe your abusive thought processes and patterns and learn to make peaceful choices. 

If I'm in the 12 Week Intensive, what is required to get the completion bonus?

  • Attend initial intake with Coach Joi
  • Submit initial polygraph one week before start date.
  • No missed sessions.
  • Attend each session on-time for the entire time.
  • One individual session per week.
  • One individual session per week for wife scheduled through Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
  • Complete assignments and meditations.
  • Complete an abusive behavior history with a polygraph.
  • Complete final polygraph

How many private individual sessions should I sign up for?

Your individual sessions will be included in the price of the intensive. If you've completed the intensive, talk with Coach Joi about which options will be the best for your specific situation. 

Can I use my insurance?

We will not bill your insurance company, however you may use your HSA card to pay for your program.

What If I need to miss a session for work?

No missed sessions are allowed to qualify for the completion bonus. However, during the initial Individual Session with Coach Joi, she'll outline the few exceptions to this rule.

Can I get a refund if I don't like it? Or if I change my mind?

No. All payments are non-refundable.

What kind of follow-up programs will you offer?

After you complete the year long program, men have the option of continuing to participate in weekly group and Individual sessions.

About Coach Joi

Joi is a professional abuse and betrayal trauma coach with 25 years experience. She specializes in helping men recognize abusive behaviors and entitlement thinking. As a betrayal trauma coach she helps women navigate the abuse & set boundaries for emotional, physical, and sexual safety.

Joi’s goal is that ALL abusive behaviors stop, including gaslighting and manipulation. During the recovery process, Joi empowers the victim to hold healthy boundaries. It’s Joi’s life mission to help men exhibiting abusive behaviors make restitution for the harm they’ve caused and become a center for peace.

Joi is a Marriage and Family Life Educator, trained by BYU-I & Aspen Family Wellness (BCC), The American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (PRC), and The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS CPC).

About Coach Peggy

Peggy is a Professional Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coach with 20 years experience working with men and women. She helps individuals dismantle abusive thought processes and remove sabotaging unconscious programming to facilitate behavior change.

Using the language of the non-conscious mind, Journey Work creates lasting change. Peggy is a certified Journey Practitioner (CJP) and trained with The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) CPC-c.