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You Can be Your Family’s

Center For Peace

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Unlike Any Other Men’s Program

Our program helps men become emotionally safe for their wives. 

Many men exhibit abusive behavior without even knowing it.

Once abusive thought processes have been reframed, a man can be emotionally safe and exhibit protective behaviors.

Tools & Strategies That Eliminate Abusive Behavior

Thought Patterns & Behaviors

  • Identification & elimination of abusive thought patterns and associated behaviors
  • Reframing core beliefs & thoughts
  • Surrendering to reality, rather than living in fantasy
  • Recognizing there is ONE truth, rather than two sides of the story
  • Behavior change processes with a focus on peace
  • Learning to contribute, not contaminate
  • Creating power statements instead of excuses
  • Grooming vs. genuine care & protection

Coping Strategies

  • Identification & elimination of unhealthy coping behaviors
  • Restructuring coping process with a focus on current behaviors
  • Preparing & executing a Living Amends Plan

The Only Program That Pays You Back


Step 1

  • Schedule the initial intake session.
  • Complete all prerequisites.
  • Register & pay. Only 11 spots are available. Payment holds your spot, so register ASAP because they go quick.

Step 2

  • Attend all 50-minute group sessions.
  • Schedule and attend an individual session once a week.
  • Complete all the program requirements.

Step 3

  • Receive a $1,000 bonus for completing all program requirements.

Program Prerequisites

  • Schedule an individual session with Coach Joi for an intake interview.
  • Schedule an individual session with Coach Joi for an intake session with your wife through Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
  • Complete the intake form.
  • Complete a polygraph confirming the truth of the information on your intake form. Submit your results three weeks before the program start date. Complete another polygraph at the end of the program.

Program Requirements

  • No missed sessions.
  • One individual session per week.
  • One individual session per week for wife scheduled through Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
  • Complete required activities.

Cost Breakdown

Phase I: Intensive – 12 Weeks
Initial Intake Session
*If wife is not a Betrayal Trauma Recovery client already, she also needs to schedule an individual session with Coach Joi
Separate Weekly Individual Sessions for Husband & Wife
Group Sessions – 4 days a week
*Includes Initial Polygraph
Phase II: Application – 24 Weeks
Separate Weekly Individual Sessions for Husband & Wife
Group Sessions – 2 days a week
Phase III: Maintenance – 12 Weeks 
Group Sessions – 1 day a week
*Includes Year-End Polygraph

Schedule - All Times In Eastern USA


  • Week 1: Aug 4,5,6 – 7PM / Aug 8 – 9AM 
  • Week 2Aug 11,12,13 – 7PM / Aug 15 – 9AM
  • Week 3: Aug 18,19,20 – 7PM / July 22 – 9AM
  • Week 4: Aug 25,26,27 – 7PM / July 29 – 9AM
  • Week 5: Sept 8,9,10 – 7PM / Sept 12 – 9AM
  • Week 6: Sept 15,16,17 – 7PM / Sept 19 – 9AM
  • Week 7: Sept 22,23,24 – 7PM / Sept 26 – 9AM
  • Week 8: Sept 29,30,Oct 1 – 7PM / Oct 3 – 9AM
  • Week 9: Oct 6,7,8 – 7PM / Oct 11 – 9AM
  • Week 10Oct 13,14,15 – 7PM / Oct 17 – 9AM
  • Week 11:Oct 20,21,22 – 7PM / Oct  24 – 9AM
  • Week 12: Oct 27,28,29 – 7PM / Oct 31 – 9AM
  • Week 13-36: schedule will be Tuesdays – 6PM & Saturdays – 10AM
  • Week 37-48: Wednesdays – 8PM


I don't see where to sign up?

Before you sign up, you need to make an Individual Session with Coach Joi. After that initial session, you'll know if the program. If it is, Coach Joi will email you the link to register.

What can I expect from this program?

You can expect to be given tools to help you recognize the damage abusive behaviors cause. You will receive tools to reframe your abusive thought processes and patterns and learn to make peaceful choices. 

What is required to get the $1000 completion bonus?

  • Attend initial intake with Coach Joi
  • Complete initial polygraph one week before start date.
  • Attend each session, on time for entire program.
  • Attend one individual session per week.
  • Complete assignments.
  • Complete year-end polygraph

How many individual sessions should I sign up for?

Your individual sessions (one per week for both husband & wife separately) are included in the price for an entire year.

Can I use my insurance?

We will not bill your insurance company, however you may use your HSA card to pay for your program.

What If I need to miss a session?

No missed sessions are allowed to qualify for the completion bonus. However, Coach Joi will outline the few exceptions to this rule.

Can I get a refund if I don't like it? Or if I change my mind?

No. All payments are non-refundable.

What kind of follow-up programs will you offer?

After you complete the year long program, men have the option of continuing to participate in weekly group and individual sessions.

About Coach Joi

Joi is a professional abuse and betrayal trauma coach with 25 years experience. She specializes in helping men recognize abusive behaviors and entitlement thinking. As a betrayal trauma coach she helps women navigate the abuse & set boundaries for emotional, physical, and sexual safety.

Joi’s goal is that ALL abusive behaviors stop, including gaslighting and manipulation. During the recovery process, Joi empowers the victim to hold healthy boundaries. It’s Joi’s life mission to help men exhibiting abusive behaviors make restitution for the harm they’ve caused and become a center for peace.

Joi is a Marriage and Family Life Educator, trained by BYU-I & Aspen Family Wellness (BCC), The American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (PRC), and The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS CPC).