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Unlike Any Other Men’s Program

Our program helps men become emotionally safe for their wives. 

Many men exhibit abusive behavior without even knowing it.

Once abusive thought processes have been reframed, a man can be emotionally safe and exhibit protective behaviors.

Tools & Strategies That Eliminate Abusive Behavior

Thought Patterns & Behaviors

  • Identification & elimination of abusive thought patterns and associated behaviors
  • Reframing core beliefs & thoughts
  • Surrendering to reality, rather than living in fantasy
  • Recognizing there is ONE truth, rather than two sides of the story
  • Behavior change processes with a focus on peace
  • Learning to contribute, not contaminate
  • Creating power statements instead of excuses
  • Grooming vs. genuine care & protection

Coping Strategies

  • Identification & elimination of unhealthy coping behaviors
  • Restructuring coping process with a focus on current behaviors
  • Preparing & executing a Living Amends Plan

The Only Program That Pays You Back


Step 1

  • Email Coach Joi to see if you’d be a good fit. 
  • Mail your payment to hold your spot. There are only 5 spots per start date, and they go quickly.
  • Complete all prerequisites.

Step 2

  • Attend all 50-minute group sessions.
  • Attend an individual session once a week the first 36 weeks.
  • Complete all the program requirements.

Step 3

  • Receive a $1,000 bonus for completing all program requirements.

Program Prerequisites

  • Email Coach Joi to see if you’re a candidate.
  • Submit your payment. 
  • Complete the intake form.

Program Requirements

  • No missed group or individual sessions.
  • Complete required activities.

Program Details

Phase I: 12 Weeks
Separate Weekly Individual Sessions for Husband & Wife
Group Sessions – M,T,W,Th at 7PM EST USA (4 x week)
Phase II: 24 Weeks
Separate Weekly Individual Sessions for Husband & Wife
Group Sessions – M/W or T/Th 6PM EST USA (2 x week)
Phase III: 12 Weeks 
Group Session – Th 8PM EST USA (1 x week)


  • Our next start date is April 5, 2021.
  • Cut off date for participants payment is March 22, 2021.
  • There are only 5 spots per start date. They go quickly.
  • Payment secures your spot for the entire year-long program.
  • We often have a wait list for the next available start date.
  • When you email Coach Joi, she’ll set up a paid consultation to see if you’re a good fit for the program. If you’re a good fit, Joi will send you details about the program schedule.


I don't see where to sign up?

Email to set up a paid consultation. This consultation will determine if you're a good fit for the program.

What can I expect from this program?

You can expect to be given tools to help you recognize the damage abusive behaviors cause. You will receive tools to reframe your abusive thought processes and patterns and learn to make peaceful choices. 

What is required to get the $1000 completion bonus?

  • Attend each session, on time for entire program.
  • Attend one individual session per week.
  • Complete assignments.

How many individual sessions should I sign up for?

Your individual sessions (one per week for both husband & wife separately) for the first 36 weeks are included in the price.

Can I use my insurance?

We will not bill your insurance company, however you may use HSA  funds to pay for your program or request reimbursement. You'll need to check with your insurance, as some providers do not provide reimbursement.

What If I need to miss a session?

No missed sessions are allowed to qualify for the completion bonus. However, Coach Joi will outline the few exceptions to this rule.

Can I get a refund if I don't like it? Or if I change my mind?

No. All payments are non-refundable. Since your payment reserves your spot for an entire year, no one else can take your place if you quit.

What kind of follow-up programs will you offer?

After you complete the year long program, men have the option of continuing to participate in weekly group sessions.


Joi is the Clinical Director of Betrayal Trauma Recovery & Center For Peace. She is a professional abuse and betrayal trauma coach with 25 years experience. She specializes in helping men recognize abusive behaviors and entitlement thinking. As a betrayal trauma coach, she helps women navigate the abuse & set boundaries for emotional, physical, and sexual safety.

Joi’s goal is that ALL abusive behaviors stop, including gaslighting and manipulation. During the recovery process, Joi empowers the victim to hold healthy boundaries. It’s Joi’s life mission to help men exhibiting abusive behaviors stop, make restitution for the harm they’ve caused, and become a center for peace.

Joi holds a Masters in Addiction Counseling (MAAC), with an emphasis on multiple behavioral addictions. She is also a certified Marriage and Family Life Educator, trained by BYU-I & Aspen Family Wellness (BCC). She holds additional certifications through The American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (PRC), The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS CPC), Domestic Violence Specialist (DVS), and is a Certified Symbis Marriage Facilitator (CSMF), and she directs the Certified Abuse Specialist Program at Center for Peace (CAS).