Regret, Remorse and Contrition

Working in the field of betrayal, abuse, domestic violence, coercive control – (we have so many terms for the behaviors of men that harm women) – has led to being able to observe attitudes and behaviors of those who change and correct the abuse and those who do not. There are big differences.  In this … Read more

Pain and Discomfort Avoidant Men

In this week’s post we will be presenting on the topic of the discomfort and pain-avoidant man and the impact of this behavior on the women these men marry. For years, in this field we have addressed issues of abuse, power and control, and even (the wrongly assessed term), ‘narcissism’ to more fully grapple with … Read more