When Sex is a Duty for the Wife

A serious conversation on many women’s experience with sex If sex is physically pleasurable and part of what keeps marriage together, what is happening that causes it to turn from intimacy to a duty. Why do so many women come into my office with decades of hurt and pain from their experiences with sex with … Read more

Why Your Thoughts Matter

..and you have more control than you might want to admit In this week’s post we are going to unpack thinking patterns that become the problems we create in our own lives. Stay with us here – this may not sound like a topic you want to approach, but the reality is, what and how … Read more

Social Media Trash Psychology

It’s time to unpack some of the trash that is sold as psychology on social media. We’ve been biting our proverbial tongue for a while now. It’s time to just break loose with what is legitimate and what is rubbish. So much of what people are consuming online fuels the narratives that lead to abuse, … Read more

A Few Abusive Traps

…and the way out of them We’ve been living with an abuser for a while, we’ve attended groups, read books, and yet still there are times when his tactics catch us off guard. When we are caught in the trap of the abuser it feels awful. We struggle to level set things so that we … Read more