Holding Space is More than a Social Statement

According to Google, the term “holding space” was popularized by Donald Winnicott in 1960. It gained traction when Heather Plett used the term in a blog post sometime in 2015. We all chuckle at the phrase now thanks to the bit from Wicked. In the clinical field, we speak about holding space as a process … Read more

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year from Center for Peace! As we step into this fresh, new year, I want to take a moment to send you a message of hope, positivity, and inspiration. The start of a new year is always a powerful time—a chance to reset, renew, and realign with the vision we have for our … Read more

Why He Cannot Tell a Story Different than Yours

More on Why Words Matter At Center for Peace, you often hear us say, “Speak your truth” or “Honor your story” because how you describe your experience matters.  This is important when we are talking about abuse and betrayal, or any other life experience.  Every human being’s telling of their experience is known in the … Read more

A Christmas Message

Wishing You Peace this Holiday and Safety in the New Year This time of year can be filled with both difficult and wonderful memories. Maybe they are from your childhood experiences or from living with someone who abused and sabotaged holidays.  Is your story about how hard you worked to pull off the holidays only … Read more

Trauma Bond/Stockholm Syndrome

Breaking down the myths on the terms used to blame victims It is not uncommon for beliefs to take deep root in our social stories to the point that these ideas become difficult to rectify. For example, it was long believed the Earth is the center of the universe and all celestial bodies orbit around … Read more

Why Your Intention Does Not Matter

An Addition to the Post “Let’s Talk About Intention” If you have ever been told a version of, “I didn’t mean for you to take it that way,” or “I didn’t mean for that to happen,” you need to read this post. These types of comments are abusive. Let’s set this record straight right here … Read more