Making the Victim into the Villain

Why Victims Cannot Safely be the Victim Some time back we posted a blog about The Good Man Narrative. In that post we discussed the way men who use “Targeted Partner Abuse©” protect their narrative with their collusion group. In this edition we add to that discussion with the abuse tactic of “Making the Victim … Read more

Let’s Talk About Intention

There are a lot of things abusive men do that can be baffling. The statement, “I didn’t intend to hurt you” is one of the more baffling and dysregulating abuse excuses. Let’s talk about this. Define INTEN’TIONAL, adjective Intended; designed; done with design or purpose. This is the perfect definition for what we experience when … Read more

Let’s Discuss Financial Abuse

Did you get married thinking the man you loved would care for you, treat you right and fair, build a life with you where you would navigate life together?  Was there a rude awakening to that dream where you soon discovered you were married to the king in his counting house and everything that came … Read more

Why Center for Peace Does Not Recommend a Facilitated Disclosure

If you missed the latest Live on Instagram, this recap on the so-called “therapeutic facilitated disclosure” nightmare, may be of interest to you. Warning Statement If you have participated in a “Therapeutic Facilitated Disclosure” that was successful, please do not shoot the messenger. We have worked in this field for decades. We’ve watched the trends … Read more